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The Sibling Toolkit

3-9 Year Olds 50 Pages Fun Activities Printable Worksheets Strategies Games Kid-Approved

US$24.19

What's Included:

  • AgesYears Suitable for 3-9 Year Olds
  • PrintableWorksheets Icon Printable Worksheets
  • EngagingActivities Icon Engaging Activities
  • ToolsAndStrats Practical Tools and Strategies
  • ExpertGuidance 1 Expert Guidance
  • LifetimeAccess Lifetime Access

What Your Child Will Learn

  • How to listen to their siblings
  • How to resolve conflicts with siblings
  • How to take turns with siblings
  • Fun ways to reset after a bad day
  • How to be kind to their siblings
  • Ways to say sorry after an argument
  • Your family rules and values
  • How to show love to their siblings
  • Ways to get to know their siblings better
  • How to build a strong bond with siblings
  • How to tell their siblings they need space
  • How to understand their emotions
  • How to cope when a sibling is frustrating
  • Ways to make sharing easier
  • What they love about their siblings
  • What it means to have fairness in your home
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Created by a team of experts &

Jess VanderWier

Jess is a registered psychotherapist who has been helping children and families in her private practice for years. Her unique approach looks at the root causes of sibling struggles and offers practical, easy-to-implement solutions. As a mom of 3, Jess understands firsthand the joys and challenges of raising siblings. Her passion for nurturing strong family bonds led her to create this comprehensive toolkit. She's helped thousands of families foster loving sibling relationships and is excited to share these tools with you!

HELP YOUR KIDS DEVELOP A LASTING BOND

Here's a Sneak Peek at the Printable Worksheets

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Parents & Children

Whoโ€™s This Printable For?

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NumberOne

Your children are fighting all of the time. They are so different from each other, and sometimes it feels like they wonโ€™t ever create that sibling bond. You want them to get to know each other and respect each other at a deeper level.

NumberTwo

Your kids struggle with sharing and resolving conflict. You feel like you are constantly playing referee in your home and want to help your kids feel more connected and get back on the same team.

NumberThree

Your children mostly get along, but you want them to create a deeper relationship. You hope your kids can get to know each other better and celebrate the ways they are the same and different.

LIFE CHANGING STORIES

From Real Parents Just Like You

Quote bubble with nectarine background Lynsey | Mom of 1

We had a HUGE win. Right around when the toolkit came out a neighbour kid around her age had started asking her to do inappropriate things (ex. Lift her shirt up, trade pants) and she told me she was too afraid to say no. But yesterday I heard her boldly say, โ€œNo I canโ€™t do that, itโ€™s my body.โ€ Thank you again for releasing this!

Quote bubble with red background David | Father of 2

As a Dad, I was nervous about how I would teach body safety to my daughters. This toolkit gave me the confidence I needed to teach them about tricky people and secrets. I am so grateful to be given such an easy tool that will help protect my kids.

Quote bubble with pink background Roe | Mom of 3

Jess, I will scream from the rooftops to every person I know that they need to do your body safety toolkit with their kids. Just one week after doing this toolkit with my kids, we had a situation where my daughter was touched at school by a friend. She knew EXACTLY what to do. She told a teacher, and the situation was handled. Forever grateful for this resource.

Quote bubble with yellow background Jenna | Mom of 4

After doing your body safety toolkit with my grade 2 daughter, something happened at school a few months later. She was able to tell her teacher what happened, and we came and it also ended up helping the other child who was doing something inappropriate as well. Iโ€™m incredibly grateful that you gave us the tools so my daughter was able to identify that this was an unsafe secret. Thank you so much for this!

Quote bubble with green background Dan | Dad of 1

I didnโ€™t know how I was going to teach my son about privacy. He always stripped down naked as soon as he got into the house. This was fine when he was 2 or 3, but now that he was 6, I wanted him to know that this wasnโ€™t ok anymore. The toolkit gave us what we needed to teach him about public/private without making him feel shame about it.

Quote bubble with blue background Zaya | Mom of 2

We had a scary situation at my daughterโ€™s school that made us purchase this toolkit. We realized we had never really had conversations with her about body safety and consent, and it was overdue. The toolkit gave us the confidence to help her stand up for herself, know her body parts, and also say no!

A REAL FAMILY MAKING CHANGE

Emilyโ€™s Story

Emily struggled with her son's sleep for years, who is now eight years old. Here is her sleep story.

A small child in a striped green and white shirt reaches out to touch a collection of colorful heart-shaped objects on a wall. The hearts vary in size and design, including patterns and solid colors, like red, blue, yellow, and green. The child's face is turned away from the camera, focusing on the hearts, suggesting engagement in a playful learning or creative activity.

Dad of 1

I wondered if it was too lateโ€ฆ

My husband travelled for work, and our bedtime routine got harder and harder. To the point where my son wouldnโ€™t sleep without me. He is 8. I questioned whether things were too far gone or if weโ€™d need to co-sleep forever.

A cheerful young boy wearing a blue jacket and a gray beanie with an orange logo, enjoying a winter day outdoors; his yellow and green mask rests on his chin. He's seated on a black sled with a snowy forest in the background, indicating a fun day of sledding.

Dad of 1

Just one night and I saw change!

Tonight, I did the Connected Hearts. And oh my, the way it melted his heart...beyond words. Since heโ€™s 8, I was able to talk to him about his fears, worries, etc. He listened. Seeing how much my effort to feel close to him already made him feel safe in just one night means the world. I already know bedtime will be easier moving forward.

A happy family enjoying a winter day outdoors; a young boy in a black hat and blue coat with a ski pole, a smiling woman wearing a brown beanie, and another cheerful child in a blue jacket with snowflakes on it. They're surrounded by snowy trees, indicating a day spent skiing or sledding.

Dad of 1

Itโ€™s what we both needed.

This approach was exactly what my son and I needed. He loved knowing I was coming back to check on him, and it left both of us feeling so much better than the old bedtime struggle we were having for years. I feel like we are working through a solution that makes sense. Thank you so much for your advice!!

Let's do it!

Course Pricing

US$24.19

What's Included:

  • AgesYears Suitable for 3-9 Year Olds
  • PrintableWorksheets Icon Printable Worksheets
  • EngagingActivities Icon Engaging Activities
  • ToolsAndStrats Practical Tools and Strategies
  • ExpertGuidance 1 Expert Guidance
  • LifetimeAccess Lifetime Access
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Age

3-9 Year Olds

This toolkit is designed with children ages 3-9 in mind.

PrintableWorksheets

Printable Worksheets

This toolkit includes printable colouring sheets and posters to help kids build a bond and resolve conflict.

EngagingActivities

Engaging Activities

Inside the toolkit, youโ€™ll find games and activities you can use with your kids to help get them on the same team.

PracticalToolsAndStrategies

Practical Tools and Strategies

The tools and scripts in this toolkit can be used within minutes of downloading. The toolkit is incredibly practical and will help your child see their sibling in a new way.

Expert Guidance

A team of experts in child development and mental health created the information, games, and worksheets.

LifetimeAccess

Lifetime Access

You can print this toolkit as many times as your children need it! Use the games, worksheets, and posters over and over.

YOUโ€™RE PROBABLY WONDERINGโ€ฆ

Frequently Asked Questions

What age is The Sibling Toolkit appropriate for?

The Sibling Toolkit was created with children ages 3-9 in mind.

Is this a one-time use toolkit, or can I print it multiple times for my children?

You can print it off again and again for use within your own household! This toolkit will help you for years to come!

We ask that you do not forward or share The Sibling Toolkit with anyone else in accordance with our licence terms and conditions. If you love the toolkit and want to share it with your friends and family, please send them the link to purchase it directly!

Iโ€™m a teacher / therapist / professional. Can I use The Sibling Toolkit?

Absolutely! The toolkit was created with professional use in mind as well. Your purchase of The Sibling Toolkit gives you a licence for your home or classroom only.

We ask that you do not forward or share The Sibling Toolkit with anyone else in accordance with our licence terms and conditions. If you love the Toolkit and want to share it with your friends and family, please send them the link to purchase it directly!

Is this helpful for highly sensitive / neurodivergent children?

Absolutely. This toolkit was created with neurodivergent children in mind.

Does the toolkit cover sibling rivalry?

We created the toolkit for kids who often get into arguments. The toolkit gives your child scripts and tools they can use in difficult moments with their siblings. It also provides ideas for them to start resolving conflict on their own.

Does the toolkit cover sharing?

Yes, the toolkit gives your child a plan for sharing and scripts they can use with their sibling when they are fighting over a toy.

Does the toolkit teach my kids about getting along?

Inside the toolkit, your child will learn how to find compassion for their sibling and get to know them on a deeper level. Doing this toolkit together (with you) should hopefully boost your childโ€™s bond with each other and with you as their parent โ€” helping them get along!

What if my child doesnโ€™t like colouring? Will they still find it helpful?

Yes, there are games, scripts, and activities inside the toolkit that will be helpful for kids who donโ€™t like colouring.

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