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The Friendship Toolkit
US$24.19
What's Included:
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Suitable for 3-9 Year Olds
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Printable Worksheets
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Engaging Activities
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Practical Tools and Strategies
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Expert Guidance
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Lifetime Access
Your Child Will Learn
- What it means to be a friend
- How they can be a friend
- How to identify red flags in friendship
- How to identify a good friend
- How to make new friends
- How to start a conversation with a new friend
- How to use an assertive voice
- How to develop a deep sense of confidence
- What to do when someone doesnโt want to play
- How to cope with worries
- How to stand up for their friends
- What a trusted friend should never do
- Who their trusted friends are
- What they can do if they feel uncomfortable with a friend
- The importance of being respectful towards friends
- The beauty of diversity between friends

Created by a team of experts &
Jess VanderWier
Parents & Children
Whoโs This Printable For?

You have a hesitant or sensitive child who is struggling to make friends at school. You want to teach them how to introduce themselves and get to know other friends in the class.

Your child is struggling with bullying or friends who are being unkind to them. You want them to identify unsafe behaviours and learn how to use their strong voice.

You want your child to learn to cultivate genuine and authentic friendships that will add joy and fulfillment to their lives.
LIFE CHANGING STORIES
From Real Parents Just Like You
Erin | Mom of 1
This is an amazing resource! We started working through it a few weeks ago and my sensitive one, who's starting JK next week, has loved it. Every time someone asks how she's feeling about school she identifies feeling nervous and then legit says "but I have a work book that helps". I won't lie, I hesitated buying it because as a therapist myself I felt confident supporting the transition but there's something about her having the physical pages to go back to that seems to have really helped her.
Betsy | Mom of 2
Just spent a nice 30-40 minutes going thru the school toolkit. We decided we'd put the 'after school calm down' examples on the fridge so she could remember some options. After I told her firmly that no, she can't spit on me, she proceed to tantrum, and in the next 20 minutes while I worked outside on a project, she practiced being angry and going thru all the options on the sheet.
Marie | Mom of 2
This toolkit is exactly what I needed to prepare my sensitive daughter for starting kinder. The 5-step-plan helped us show her exactly what to expect when starting school. She went on her first day feeling so confident! Thank you!
Chrissy | Mom of 3
Jess, I found the school toolkit so helpful. I loved the โget to know my teacherโ section. It helped my daughter feel safe with her teacher once school started. Itโs still hanging on my fridge. Thank you.
Shannon | Mom of 3
My highly sensitive son was very fearful of taking the bus or even talking to his teacher. We are using the 5-step plan to make the transition to school next year easier, and itโs already feeling like it will be much better for him! Thank you!
Anonymous
As someone who did your separations and goodbyes course and school toolkit last year I can honestly say it's the BEST thing we did to prepare our little one to go to junior kindergarten. She was so prepared, no tears at drop off, and we felt good too! HIGHLY recommend to every single parent!!!
Anonymous
My daughter and I both loved the sheet she got to fill out about herself! The whole toolkit was perfect!
Anonymous
Oh man this toolkit has been life changing for both of us. Thank you! Started some great conversations and role playing for preschool.
Anonymous
Need to thank you for the school toolkit. Started it on the weekend... today was the first day my sensitive 4 year old didn't have a huge meltdown at drop off. When I picked her up she told me how she remembered that I loved her and even showed me the love note I gave her from the toolkit. The work you and your team does changes lives. Thank you so much!!!
A REAL FAMILY MAKING CHANGE
Emilyโs Story
Emily struggled with her son's sleep for years, who is now eight years old. Here is her sleep story.

Dad of 1
I wondered if it was too lateโฆ
My husband travelled for work, and our bedtime routine got harder and harder. To the point where my son wouldnโt sleep without me. He is 8. I questioned whether things were too far gone or if weโd need to co-sleep forever.

Dad of 1
Just one night and I saw change!
Tonight, I did the Connected Hearts. And oh my, the way it melted his heart...beyond words. Since heโs 8, I was able to talk to him about his fears, worries, etc. He listened. Seeing how much my effort to feel close to him already made him feel safe in just one night means the world. I already know bedtime will be easier moving forward.

Dad of 1
Itโs what we both needed.
This approach was exactly what my son and I needed. He loved knowing I was coming back to check on him, and it left both of us feeling so much better than the old bedtime struggle we were having for years. I feel like we are working through a solution that makes sense. Thank you so much for your advice!!
Let's do it!
Toolkit Pricing
US$24.19
What's Included:
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Suitable for 3-9 Year Olds
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Printable Worksheets
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Engaging Activities
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Practical Tools and Strategies
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Expert Guidance
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Lifetime Access

The gold standard
Teach Kids How To Make Friends

3-9 Year Olds
This toolkit is designed with children ages 3-9 in mind.

Printable Worksheets
This toolkit includes over 30 worksheets to print out and go through with your child.

Engaging Activities
The toolkit includes a variety of activities, worksheets, stories and colouring sheets to do with your child.

Practical Tools and Strategies
Inside the toolkit, youโll find practical tools and strategies to help your child confidently build new friendships and navigate common friendship challenges.

Expert Guidance
The toolkit was created by a team of experts in child development who understand the challenges kids face while making and navigating friendships.

Lifetime Access
Print this toolkit as many times as you need to for your kids! Come back to it for years to come!
YOUโRE PROBABLY WONDERINGโฆ
Frequently Asked Questions
What age is The Friendship Toolkit appropriate for?
The Friendship Toolkit was created with children ages 3-9 in mind.
Is this a one-time use toolkit, or can I print it multiple times for my children?
You can print it off again and again for use within your own household! This toolkit will help you for years to come.
We ask that you do not forward or share The Friendship Toolkit with anyone else in accordance with our licence terms and conditions. If you love the toolkit and want to share it with your friends and family, please send them the link to purchase it directly!
Iโm a teacher / therapist / professional. Can I use The Friendship Toolkit?
Absolutely! The toolkit was created with professional use in mind as well. Your purchase of The Friendship Toolkit gives you a licence for your home or classroom only.
We ask that you do not forward or share The Friendship Toolkit with anyone else in accordance with our licence terms and conditions. If you love the Toolkit and want to share it with your friends and family, please send them the link to purchase it directly!
Is this helpful for highly sensitive/neurodivergent children?
This toolkit was created with neurodivergent children in mind and can be a great tool to support them as they learn to make friends.
What if my child doesnโt like colouring? Will they still find it helpful?
The toolkit includes many different kinds of games, stories and activities to teach your child about friendships. If your child doesnโt enjoy colouring, they can still use and learn from the toolkit.
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