Online Parenting Course
Parenting Your Child With ADHD
You’re not a bad parent. Your child’s brain just works differently. This step-by-step video course helps you understand the ADHD brain, calm the meltdowns, and build routines that actually work. So you can stop yelling, stop guessing, and start connecting with your child.
Ages 4-9
57 lessons (~3.5 hours)
Self-Paced
Bonus Audio-Only Version
63 Page Workbook
🌟 Trusted by [[FOLLOWERS]] parents on Instagram!
Is this course for you?
If any of these sound familiar, you're in the right place.
You asked them to put their shoes on twelve times. Then you started yelling.
You started the morning calm. You reminded once, twice, five times. By the twelfth time, you lost it. Now everyone is late, your child is in tears, and you're driving to school wondering why something so simple has to be this hard. You go to bed replaying it, thinking: "I shouldn't have yelled."
You tried the sticker charts. You tried gentle parenting. Nothing worked.
You've read the books. You've tried the reward systems, the time-outs, the calm-voice approach. None of it sticks. You watch other parents use these strategies and it works for them, but not for your child. You're starting to wonder if the problem is you.
A teacher emailed about your child's behaviour, and your heart sank.
You saw the subject line and your stomach dropped. Another note about disruptions, another conversation where you feel like you have to defend your kid. You know they're smart and kind. You just don't know how to get other people to see what you see.
Get Started with Parenting Your Child With ADHD
57 video lessons (most between 3-6 min each)
The ADHD Parenting Workbook (Printable PDF)
7+ printable tools including The Meltdown Map, de-escalation scripts, routine builder, and dopamine boosting activities
Audio-only version for listening on the go
Quick Start Path to get immediate help without watching the full course
Watch on any device, at your own pace
Original price was: US$86.84.US$69.44Current price is: US$69.44.
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What You'll Learn
Understanding the ADHD Brain
Calming the Big Emotions
Building a Daily Life That Works
See What's Included
57 Lessons
~3.5 Hours
63 Page PDF Workbook
Bonus Audio-Only Version
This course walks you through the everyday challenges of raising a child with ADHD, from morning meltdowns to bedtime battles, while helping you build a deeper connection along the way. You'll finally understand what's happening in your child's brain, stop second-guessing yourself, and learn strategies that actually work with their wiring instead of against it. By the end, you'll feel more confident, more calm, and more connected to your child.
0. Start Here: A Roadmap for the Exhausted Parent
7 Lessons
~27 minutes
Before diving into strategies, Jess meets you where you are. You'll learn why this isn't your fault, why traditional advice keeps failing, and get a simple 3-step framework (Clarify, Connect, Collaborate) that organizes everything in the course.
In this module
Meet Your Guide and Important Disclaimer
Video
Welcome: You Are Not Alone (and It's Not Your Fault)
Video
Parenting Your Child With ADHD Course Workbook
The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything
Video
Why "Good Parenting" Advice Doesn't Work (and What Does)
Video
Your New ADHD Parenting Roadmap (The 3 C’s)
Video
How to Use This Course (Even If You're Overwhelmed)
Video
Key Terms You'll Hear Throughout This Course
Video
Introduction: A Roadmap for the Exhausted Parent
Audio
1. Clarify: Why They Do That
9 Lessons
~35 minutes
Build the foundation of empathy that makes every other strategy work. You'll understand what's happening in your child's brain, why they react the way they do, and how to start seeing their challenges as neurological, not behavioural.
In this module
ADHD 101: A Different Operating System
Video
What Does ADHD Look Like?
Video
The ADHD Spectrum: Gender, Age, and Why Diagnosis is Tricky
Video
Is it ADHD or Something Else? (Trauma, Anxiety, and Overlap)
Video
The Iceberg: What You See vs. What's Really Happening
Video
The Brain's "Manager" is Under Construction (Executive Function)
Video
The Maturity Gap: Why Your 7-Year-Old Acts Like a 4-Year-Old
Video
The "Always On" Alarm System (Sensory Sensitivity and Stress)
Video
The Gifts of the ADHD Brain (Creativity, Hyperfocus, and More)
Video
Module 1. CLARIFY: Why They Do That
Audio
2. Connect: Calming the Chaos
7 Lessons
~35 minutes
The emotional storms are real, and they're exhausting. This module gives you a toolkit for the moments when your child is falling apart. How to stay calm yourself, how to bring them back to regulation, and how to start identifying patterns so you can get ahead of the next one.
In this module
Why Are The Emotions SO BIG?
Video
When Criticism Cuts Deep (Understanding Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD))
Video
Why Punishment Makes It Worse (And What to Do Instead)
Video
The #1 Strategy: Your Own Calm (The Hardest Part)
Video
The Co-Regulation Toolkit
Video
When Things Get Physical (Handling Aggression)
Video
Finding the Triggers (The Meltdown Map)
Video
Module 2. Connect: Calming the Chaos
Audio
3. Collaborate (Part 1): Building the Support System
6 Lessons
~24 minutes
Your child's internal "management system" is still under construction. This module shows you how to act as their external brain, using visuals, timers, and simple systems to replace nagging with structure that actually helps them succeed.
In this module
Be Their Brain: The Power of Scaffolding
Video
Stop Repeating Yourself: The Power of Visuals
Video
Fixing "Time Blindness" (and Being On Time)
Video
Taming Transitions (Without the Fight)
Video
Focus and Organization Hacks
Video
Building Emotional Safety: RSD, Trust, and Communication
Video
Module 3. Collaborate (Part 1): Building the Support System
Audio
4. Collaborate (Part 2): Tackling Daily Life
9 Lessons
~43 minutes
This is where the strategies meet real life. You'll tackle the daily friction points (mornings, bedtime, screen time, sibling fights, social struggles, boredom meltdowns) with practical approaches designed for how the ADHD brain actually works.
In this module
The ADHD-Friendly Lifestyle: Sensory Needs, Rest, and Pacing
Video
Routines Without the Nagging (Yes, Really)
Video
Boundaries That Actually Stick
Video
When They Break the Rules (Problem-Solving over Punishment)
Video
The Fix for "I'm Bored!" (The Need for Stimulation)
Video
The Friendship Coach: Helping with Social Struggles
Video
Siblings: When "Fair" Isn't "Equal"
Video
Screen Time: The Dopamine Drain and How to Manage It
Video
Why Is My Child Well-Behaved at School but Explosive at Home?
Video
Module 4. Collaborate (Part 2): Tackling Daily Life
Audio
5. Sustain: Taking Care of You (and Advocating for Them)
5 Lessons
~14 minutes
You can't co-regulate from an empty tank. This module is about you managing burnout, navigating judgment from family and teachers, and building sustainability so you can show up for your child over the long haul.
In this module
When You Have ADHD Too: Strategies for the Parent
Video
Beating Burnout and Handling "Parent Guilt"
Video
Working with Teachers
Video
Handling the Grandparents (and Their "Advice")
Video
The Long Game: Connection First
Video
Module 5. Sustain: Taking Care of You (and Advocating for Them)
Audio
6. Troubleshooting & Common Challenges (The Reference Library)
14 Lessons
~38 minutes
Need a quick answer right now? These short, 2-4 minute videos are designed to be jumped to, not watched in order. Find the specific challenge you're facing and get a focused strategy immediately.
In this module
How to Use the Troubleshooting Library
Video
My Child Forgets the Rule Immediately (e.g., Running in the Road)
Video
Handling Lying and Defensiveness
Video
When They Antagonize Others Out of Boredom
Video
Toileting Issues, Soiling, and Avoidance (The ADHD Link)
Video
When Your Child Shuts Down ("I Don't Know" / "I Don't Want to Talk")
Video
Negative Self-Talk and "Doom Loops"
Video
My Child Says I'm Being "Sarcastic" When I Try to Stay Calm
Video
Handling Misophonia (When Sounds Cause Rage)
Video
Respecting Personal Space (The "Touchy-Feely" Child)
Video
The Friendships Are Fading (When Peers Pull Away)
Video
How do you tell your child they have ADHD?
Video
Talking About Medication (And When They Won't Tell You How They Feel)
Video
Closing: You've Got This
Video
Module 6. Troubleshooting & Common Challenges (The Reference Library)
Audio
See How Jess Teaches
Jess doesn't lecture. She talks to you like a friend who happens to be a therapist, walking you through real scenarios, modelling the exact words to use, and showing you how to stay calm when everything is falling apart. Watch a short preview to see her teaching style for yourself.
Taught By:
Jess VanderWier
Registered Psychotherapist & Mom with ADHD
🌟 Trusted by [[FOLLOWERS]] parents on Instagram!
Jess is a registered psychotherapist who has spent years working with children and adults with ADHD, in her practice and in her own home. She has ADHD herself, and she's married to someone with ADHD too. So when she says "I get it," she means it.
Her approach to ADHD parenting goes beyond managing behaviour. She helps you understand why your child's brain works the way it does, so you can stop fighting against their wiring and start working with it. Everything in this course is built around connection first. Because when your child feels safe with you, the strategies actually stick.
Why Parents Choose This Course
Your Plan to Become Their Confident Guide
Watch, Don't Just Read
Jess models every strategy on camera. Her tone, her pacing, what she does when a child pushes back. You'll see how co-regulation actually looks and sounds, not just read a description of it.
The 3 C's Framework
Every strategy in this course is organized around a simple, memorable framework: Clarify, Connect, Collaborate. When you're in the middle of a meltdown, you don't need a textbook. You need three steps you can actually remember.
A Troubleshooting Library You'll Use for Years
Module 6 is a reference library of 13 short videos covering specific challenges: lying, toileting, misophonia, negative self-talk, fading friendships. Jump straight to the problem you're facing and get a focused answer in minutes.
Designed for Overwhelmed Brains
Most lessons are 3-6 minutes. There's a Quick Start Path if you're in crisis. There's an audio version if you can't sit down to watch. This course was built for the parent who can barely get through the day, let alone watch hours of video.
Created by a Therapist Who Lives It
Jess doesn't just study ADHD. She has ADHD. She parents alongside a partner with ADHD. The strategies in this course have been tested in her own kitchen on her own chaotic mornings.
Grows With Your Child
The questions you have about your 4-year-old will be different than your 9-year-old. Come back to the troubleshooting library, the workbook, and the daily life modules at every new stage. Your access doesn't expire.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should I pay for this course when there are ADHD parenting books for $15-20?
Books give you information. This course gives you demonstration. The difference is watching Jess model a de-escalation in real time (her tone, her body language, how she responds when a child pushes back) versus reading a script on paper and hoping you get the delivery right. You'll also get a comprehensive workbook, 7+ printable tools (including The Meltdown Map and de-escalation scripts), and a troubleshooting library you can search by specific problem. Books explain concepts. This course shows you how to do it.
My child hasn't been formally diagnosed. Is this still for me?
Yes. This course is designed for parents of children with diagnosed ADHD and parents who suspect their child may have ADHD. Jess covers the overlap between ADHD, anxiety, and trauma responses, and the strategies taught here support any child who struggles with emotional regulation, impulsivity, or executive function challenges. That said, this course cannot replace a formal diagnosis. Jess recommends a comprehensive psychological assessment if you're unsure.
My child is [age]. Is this the right age range?
The course is designed for parents of children ages 4-9. Many of the strategies (visual supports, scaffolding, co-regulation) are effective across a broader range, but the scenarios, scripts, and developmental expectations are calibrated for this age window.
I have ADHD too. Will I actually be able to finish this course?
Jess has ADHD herself and designed this course with overwhelmed brains in mind. Most lessons are 3-6 minutes long. There's a Quick Start Path if you need help right now and can't commit to the full course. There's an audio-only version you can listen to while driving, cooking, or folding laundry. And every lesson ends with one small "Tiny Task." Not a full overhaul of your parenting.
How long are the lessons?
Core lessons average at 3-6 minutes. Troubleshooting videos in Module 6 are about 2-4 minutes. The entire course is over 3.5 hours, but it's designed to be watched in small pieces instead of in one sitting.
What's the Quick Start Path?
If you're in crisis mode and need strategies right now, the Quick Start Path highlights a small set of lessons marked QSP that give you the most critical tools first. You can come back and watch the rest when you're ready.
Will this course tell me about medication for ADHD?
No. Medication can be a valuable part of an ADHD treatment plan, but it's outside the scope of this course. Jess recommends speaking with your child's healthcare provider about medication options. This course focuses on parenting strategies, environmental supports, and the parent-child relationship.
Can I rewatch the lessons?
Yes. You have ongoing access to all course content (videos, workbook, and printable tools). You can revisit any lesson at any time, on any device.
Is this course self-paced?
Yes. There are no scheduled sessions or deadlines. Watch at your own speed, in whatever order works for you. Many parents start with the Quick Start Path and then circle back to Module 1.
What's your refund policy?
You have 30 days to try the course. If you've completed 50% or less of the content and aren't satisfied, contact us for a full refund.
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