Setting Boundaries

A Parenting Blueprint for Hitting, Biting, Dinnertime, and More.

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Is your use (or lack) of boundaries not working?

You might be feeling like:

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Your child hits, bites, kicks (and sometimes all 3)!
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Yelling doesn’t stop challenging behaviours.
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You feel guilty about punishing your child.
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You can’t get your child to sit at the dinner table.
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You feel like your child doesn’t take you seriously.
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You feel like your child gets away with everything.

Our Setting Boundaries course will help you use clear and loving boundaries with your child!

Meet your guide!

Few people know how to help parents raise their children using effective discipline tools like Jess VanderWier. As a registered psychotherapist working directly with families and children, as well as a creator of online parenting resources, Jess has helped millions of families find calm in their homes as they create deep connections with their children.

And even more, Jess is a boundary-setting expert! She knows that in order for parents to raise their kids without punishment, they need to feel confident in setting and holding boundaries. In this course, she’ll show you what an effective boundary looks like, and then will guide you through exactly how to set boundaries in your home!

Jess has experience helping families who are feeling like their homes are chaotic and that behaviours feel out of control. And now, she’s ready to help you.

Jess VanderWier

Registered Psychotherapist

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Made Significant Change
"I have goosebumps as I’m writing this. Setting Boundaries was exactly the course we needed to help us start to make changes in our home! It was the missing piece that we needed as we started responding to our kids' behaviour in a new way!"


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A New Perspective
"Jess, just wanted to say how helpful we found your setting boundaries course. We went from my toddler hitting her babysitter what felt like all day every day - to barely any hitting! We hadn’t known how to help her so we were sending my toddler to timeouts all day. This course gave us a new perspective and better approach that actually worked! Thank you!"

A sneak peek of what’s included inside the course:

Find your WHY behind setting boundaries, and understand what makes a good boundary.

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This course is designed with busy parents in mind. It’s super helpful, straightforward, and easy to fit into your hectic schedule.

You will start with a 35-minute workshop that gives you a fundamental understanding of setting boundaries. Discover how they can be implemented practically with REAL examples.

Following this, you’ll jump into our ‘Deeper Dive’ videos which address some of the most challenging behaviours that require boundary setting like hitting, screaming, potty, and dinnertime!

You’re ready to make a change, and we’re here to help you on your boundary-setting journey!

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A New Perspective
"Jess, just wanted to say how helpful we found your setting boundaries course. We went from my toddler hitting her babysitter what felt like all day every day - to barely any hitting! We hadn’t known how to help her so we were sending my toddler to timeouts all day. This course gave us a new perspective and better approach that actually worked! Thank you!"
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BONUS!

Our 7-day boundary-setting challenge includes:

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Day-by-Day Challenge Breakdown:

Day 1: Reflecting on Values

Day 2: Significance of Boundaries

Day 3: Uncovering Fears

Day 4: Choosing a Boundary

Day 5: Time to Practice

Day 6: Addressing Challenges

Day 7: Wrapping it Up

24 / 7 Lifetime Access!
Work through the course and challenge on your time, anytime.

Unlock a New Video Every Day!
Each day for 7 days you’ll get a new video with practical insights and deeper reflections.

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Start Seeing Change in Your Home!
The challenge includes real stories, tools, and insights that you can start using as soon as today!

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Yelling doesn’t feel good…

…but neither does letting your child get away with everything. There has to be a better way!

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Honestly, sometimes in the chaos that is parenting, it feels like yelling, bribing, or punishing is all you can do to make a change. But… this isn’t feeling good!

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Boundaries can be a loving thing. For example: Stopping your child from hitting their baby brother saves them from feeling guilt and shame! We want to help you confidently set these loving boundaries in your home.

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This immersive course will help you learn how to set boundaries and confidently respond to all the most common challenging behaviours that kids have! You’ll be referring back to this course for years to come.

Frequently asked questions!

1. How long do I have access to the course?

You’ll get unlimited access to the boundaries course! Get started today, or save the course for when you need it most and you’ll have it for as long as we have this platform!

2. What age is this course useful for?

We suggest this course for parents and caregivers of children ages 1-12!

3. I have a 1 year old (or a little toddler) would this really be helpful?

Absolutely! We believe that the sooner you can start implementing healthy boundaries the easier life will be as you enter into the toddler and school aged years.

4. Do I have to do the Bonus 7-Day Challenge right away? What if I don’t have time?

You can do the 7-day challenge whenever it works best for you! When you grab Setting Boundaries, you will instantly get access to Day 1 of the challenge. From here, you will get a new video released to you each day for 7 days. You can watch these right away, or save them for when you are ready!

5. Who is this course designed for?

This course is designed for parents or caregivers who struggle with setting boundaries for their children. It’s very helpful if you’ve been trying to use “gentle parenting” and find that setting boundaries either feels too harsh or too permissive.

6. What if the course doesn't work for me? Do you have a refund policy?

We want you to love Setting Boundaries! We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you find the course isn’t a good fit for you within the first 30 days, simply contact us for a full refund.

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Success stories from Setting Boundaries

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Dinnertime Battles Stopped

“I could totally relate to Sam’s story in the workshop! I had been seeing my son as disobedient when he wouldn’t sit at the dinner table! This course helped give me realistic expectations for him AND some tools to help him sit longer!”

• Ashley, Mom of 2

No More Screaming

“Jess! Your deeper dive video on helping kids with yelling was SUPER helpful. My son has always been a screamer, and I didn’t know how to validate the feeling, but it helped him with the screaming. This video (and the whole course) helped so much!”

• Ashley, Mom of 2

Exactly What We Needed

“I am so excited to take this course. This is exactly what my husband and I have been looking to do! We know a lot about parenting without punishment, but we both struggle with feeling boundaries can feel too harsh! Thank you for offering this!”

• Ashley, Mom of 2

We want you to ❤️ Setting Boundaries!

We know you’ll fall in love with this course. If you aren’t happy with your purchase, just let us know within 30 days of purchasing the course, and we will reimburse you the full purchase price!

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