Encouraging Independent Play: A Guide To Creating Invitations To Play

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Feb 13, 2023 | Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

1. Start with small invitations together2. Create a “yes space”3. Follow your child’s interests4. Trust the process5. Stay out of their way6. Understand developmental norms Play is essential for helping kids learn skills like creativity, leadership,...

Why Spanking And Taking Things Away Isn’t Effective

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Feb 13, 2023 | Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

SpankingTaking things awayFinal thoughts As a therapist, I have been asked over and over by parents what my thoughts are on traditional methods of discipline, such as time-outs, spanking and taking things away. Since we have previously talking about time-outs, I...

Which Parenting Style Is Best?

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Apr 20, 2022 | Baby, Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

How is each parenting style described and measured?Authoritative / Gentle Parenting StyleAuthoritarian Parenting StylePermissive Parenting StyleNeglectful/Uninvolved Parenting Style “How can I raise my child so they aren’t a snowflake?”“I want my children to be...

Discipline, Consequences, and Boundaries: 3 Tools Parents Should Use

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Apr 6, 2022 | Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

1. Consequences that are NOT related to the behaviour are easy to forget2. Not getting to the root cause of the behaviour3. Punishments can teach your child the wrong skillsConsequences are an important parenting toolFurther Support <span...

Welcoming A New Baby? 10 Ways To Support Your Child With The Change

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Jan 31, 2022 | Baby, Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

ContentsBefore the Baby ComesAfter the Baby Comes Have you, or are you getting ready to add a new baby to your family? Are you worried about how your older child(ren) will respond to this transition? Introducing a new baby into your family is a time of...

Why Obedience Shouldn’t Be the Goal: Fostering Curiosity in Kids

by Jess VanderWier, MA, RP | Jan 31, 2022 | Toddler, Preschooler, Big Kid

Table of ContentsCompliance vs. ListeningPerspective ShiftRaising Children Willing to Ask QuestionsHelp Hids Understand the WHY Behind Our DemandsHow to Handle Moments When You Need ObedienceRemember: It’s ok for your child to get curious about your demands Do you...